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. Family Constellations Weekend in New Orleans, LA . ..Family Constellations Saturday in Chicago 4519 N Hamilton
Avenue, Chicago, IL 60625 ... (between Wilson and Sunnyside, 2 blocks west of Lincoln in the Lincoln
Square area on the north side of the city). February 20, 2010 Family Constellations mini-workshop during the Shamanism weekend at Crow's
Nest
Dowagiac,
Michigan June 25-27, 2010 . . Shamanism: Journeying for Healing
and Insight Holistic Resolutions Center for Healing
Medical Arts Building, 715 Lake St, Ste 200, Oak Park, IL September 5, 2010 10am-4pm Cost: $100 Bring your drum or rattle if you have one.
. Moving with the Spirit-Mind: Family System Constellations
Holistic
Resolutions Center for Healing Medical Arts
Building, 715 Lake St, Ste 200, Oak Park, IL September 18-19, 2010 10am-4pm both days
Cost: $225 both days,
$125 single day Early bird special:
$195 both days, $110 single day if paid in full by September 10 . ca.Our ancestors are our behavioral and emotional genetics. The unresolved issues and traumas of those that came
before us live within us and feel like our own, and we blindly repeat the patterns. Until we clear these systemic influences
we cannot live our own destiny.
Moving with the Spirit-Mind is the advanced approach to Family Constellation
work that helps resolve the familial issues by opening the field for the system to find a new balance. The representatives are moved by a holotropic force that effortlessly manifests
a solution to the tensions and entanglements in the person's family. As the unconscious entanglements with others in our family system are resolved we more clearly experience
the love of those who came before us and we come to fully receive from and find our true place in our lineage. About the facilitator: Danuta Jirik, Ph.D. is a holistic/shamanic healer. As a systemic
facilitator, she is certified by Hellinger Sciencia and by Hellinger Institute of Western PA. She blends her shamanic training
with the constellation work in a unique and powerful way, holding a safe space in partnership with the compassionate helping
spirits.
"Danuta
is astonishing, keen, sees beneath things,very alert and thorough and protective. She works her own way and within shamanic
principles. It is true that a lot of stuff can get stirred up which for me is the value of having shamanic protection, intention,
and strong spirit guides to find the best route for ‘what wants to happen now’. Like any field, the practitioner,
the facilitator, the person not the practice, matters." -
Barnaby Ruhe, Ph.D.
Recent events and the comments from participants:
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FINDING PEACE - Spiritual Retreat Location:
GilChrist Center, Three Rivers, MI November 13-15, 2009 Comments: "Filled with peacefulness. Located in an extraordinary land filled with
positive and sacred energy. I feel a new
and profound awakening to the land and to my ancestors, an amazing gratitude for what they meant in my life. Danuta is a soft, well educated teacher, whose vision and depth
of the inner self and the knowledge of all she has been given, makes her a delightful person to welcome into one's life. I
love the workshop, the cabins, the paths; the cooperation in bringing and sharing the food was superb! Yes, I would love to
take another seminar with Danuta." -A. Monterosso
"I
feel this was the right timing and the right experience for where I'm on my spiritual journey. It was confirmation that I
am on the right path and your leadership aided in that." - Bill Kadlec
"Dear Danuta, thank you for a wonderful and enchanting retreat here at Gilchrist. It has filled my spirit with love connections
to continue my life journey with the assurance that 'Everything will be okay wherever life takes me'" - V. Velasquez
"Walking the Labyrinth in the middle of November was amazing. Wonderful location,
very serene, very helpful staff. Would do it again at a moment's notice. Leaving with a much greater sense of self and connection
with parents. Thanks." A. Pearce
"The activities were simple enough- teh Labyrinth, the dreamcatchers and building shrines (for the ancestors) - yet they
were deep reaching. The location and facilities were as remarkable as the 50F warm weather. Thank you for teaching me how
to find what I thought I did not have access to. Peace, Blessings and Love, Donna"
"Loved the serene setting and accomodations. We liked the mix of activities- the meditation followed by hiking around
the beautiful grounds. Loved walking the Labyrinth. We loved Danuta's insights and pauses to let things settle inside. We
liked the pace of it - having time for reflection. We especially enjoyed the family meditation and drums going into it. We
love your gentle guidance that lets us find our own pace and is so non-judgmental. We feel enriched for having come here.
Thanks! Love, Becky and Lynn" . . . HEALING RELATIONSHIPS - THE FAMILY CONSTELLATION APPROACH
When we turn to therapy or self-help to heal/have a relationship, we are usually looking
for a way to "fix" our problem. Common solutions might entail improving communication skills or changing some specific
behaviors. When you step into the the work of Bert Hellinger, you are entering the realm of uncommon solutions. Hellinger’s
approach - family constellations and the underlying observations from which they take shape - taps into the deepest dynamics
of a relationship. People begin to see just how unseen forces, including non-present family members and those of past generations,
and the choices that were made long ago, affect their current connections with others at many different levels. . A constellation is a multidimensional process that
typically moves through two stages. In the first, hidden-yet compelling-influences on the family are revealed. In the second
phase, healing movements and statements are discovered-and then tested within the constellation. The "soul-level adjustment"
that takes place, whether great or small, expands the partners’ options in creating solution. The new insights into the ways we
can support love- and the ways that love can support us- change us at a deep level and open up new possibilities for our relationships
to manifest harmony and true love. (text
from "Supporting Love. How Love Works in Couple Relationships", ed. by Johannes Neuhauser)
.COMMENTS on the Family Constellations
Work: "If
you have never done Family Constellation work, it is a powerful healing method. It deals with healing the family
dynamics, including patterns from generations back, and can create tremendous transformation. I have experienced this myself!
I highly recommend this workshop, and I recommend Danuta as a teacher/leader." - Joan
Forrest Mage "The workshop was wonderful for me--it's still sinking in! I've tried not
to think about it too much because then I would over-analyze it! I know for sure that watching some of the other constellations
helped me have much more compassion for my father and the challenges he faced with me. (.....) I think you're a wonderful
healer and would like to work with you again!" - J.L., Chicago
"Dear Danuta, since we met last I feel I have grown in many positive ways. The constellations and
bioenergy you did for me have deeply altered the way I perceive life. I feel liberated and like I am going through a lot of
spiritual growth spurt. I want to thank you again for helping me understand my place both within and without my family.
I also send you my love." - E. Koosed, NYC . "Danuta, I wanted to thank you for the class. It was deeply moving. I did as you suggested and
let it all settle into me. I've had a good side effect: I noticed the day after when I was at the health club that I stood
up from my seat without using my hands. I'd been unable to do that for about a year and a half. It feels quite miraculous!
My heart felt thanks. You are gifted at what you do (...) I feel I am on the right path with you." ' R. Marquardt, Chicago . SHAMANIC FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS in Manhattan: The unresolved problems of our ancestors become our problems and the problems of our children. The
unconscious family patterns, rooted in family history, determine how we think of ourselves, how we choose to live, how we
relate to others and how much happiness we allow ourselves. They may manifest as failed relationships, addictions, emotional
pain, illness, lack of success or depression. The Systemic Constellation Work allows
us to bring to light and resolve the destructive family legacy and reconnect with deepest inner resources, restoring the healthy
flow of love and strength. We can then be free to follow our own soul's destiny.
As you participate in your own or someone
else's constellation, you will experience deep movements of the spirit-mind that bring together what has been separated, include
what has been excluded, and restore wholeness. These movements arise from the "knowing
field" and are guided by divine love. You will learn to listen to and trust and move with the inner promptings of the
great soul, and be in service of healing for each other and for the ancestors and for the world. I hope you'll join me in
this spiritual adventure. - Danuta Location: New York West Village, 55 Bethune St., corner of Washington St. Comments
from the Manhattan workshop: "I've
brought the solution from the constellation home with me. I certainly feel as if I'm traveling light, bringing to my parents
a brightness rather than the baggage of my illness. I was relieved to see neither tears nor worry in their eyes for the first
time in a while. I'm letting things simply happen without analyzing as you said, I know changes take place and time without
even knowing. That is what I honored most about your circle constellation, a respect for time and patience. As well as a balance
of spoken words and silence, one that was filled with so much energy. You let things happen without forcing them and it was
a powerful experience for all of us. The group dynamic allowed me some breathing room, and expansion of my family constellation.
I thank you for this experience and I wish you the best in spreading it to others,
Sincerely, M." "Hi Danuta, Thanks for
the great experience! Certainly, something happened that day and keeps changing. I just want to embrace the "unknown",
trying to be open and let the universe do the rest. You are a kind an warm guide. Blessings to you!" S. "I was visiting my friend in NYC when she brought me to attend Danuta's
Shamanic Constellation workshop. I was nervous and skeptical before the workshop byt the healing that happened for me towards
my mother was 100% real and life changing. Danuta is very loving, intuitive, guided by the spirit
and has divine guides helping her. There is nothing to be scared of. I highly recommend that everybody should attend her workshop
and come with a humble heart and open mind." M. "I am amazed at how influential and overwhelming and beautiful the family constellations
workshop was. I am feeling better now - I had a hard time post-constellations for a week or so. - I wasn't expecting such
an experience but I am glad I did it. To dig through one's past in order to change the present is a powerful experience (...)
I am grateful that I was in company of such loving giving people while doing such hard personal
work, and also to have participated in constellations of others. You are a loving, trusting guide, and I thank you for that." J. "Danuta is astonishing, keen, sees beneath things. very alert and thourough
and protective. She works her own way and within shamanic principles. It is true that a lot of stuff can get stirred up. which
for me is the value of having shamanic protection intention and strong spirit guides to find the best route for "what
wants to happen now". like any field, the practitiner, the facilitator, the person not the practice, matters." Barnaby Ruhe, Ph.D. . . Note:
Not everyone gets to have their own constellation during the workshop, but everyone will experience some shifting. Just observing
or participating in another's constellation are opportunities for profound new understanding and can move one's soul
enough to start a process of the healing change. For the most part, the issues that are played out are universal and affect
everyone present. How it works: In the workshop,
the person having her constellation states the issue and chooses other workshop participants to represent her and the members
of her family system. The representatives are placed in the room in a spacial relationship to one another, a reflection of
the client's inner image of the system (hence the name "constellation"). While occupying the position of a particular
member of the system they are able to quite accurately report on the feelings of the people they represent. They feel, for
example, pulled towards others or repelled by them, thus revealing the hidden dynamics and tensions within the system that
relate to the issue in question. Working with this constellation involves helping the initial image to shift in the direction
of resolution and results in leaving the client with a new image of his family system and his place in it. The soul forces
can now flow through this new, balanced inner image and create an improved experience that reflects its harmony. . .. . .... THE SHAMANIC JOURNEY at the Columbia College,
Chicago SHAMANS are known as the technicians of the sacred, able to
move freely between the everyday world and the non-ordinary reality. The ancient methodology for moving
into an altered state and accessing the inner worlds in order to gain wisdom and healing through connecting with
compassionate spiritual beings is very natural and can be easily learned. There, in the sacred inner worlds, you will get
to meet your Totem Animal, a helpful spirit in the shape of an animal, that is your personal spirit guide and your guardian
and friend. There, the lanscape of the soul is laid out for exploration; there, the intuitive, the dynamic and the creative
side of our brain is put to good use. In this one-day workshop you will learn how to enter into an altered
state while listening to monotonous drumming, to travel into the dream-like spirit world and meet your helping spirits or
power animals. You will learn your personal journeying style and find and connect with your own spirit helpers. You will have
an opportunity to journey for answers to your burning questions and to gain healing insight into the issues of your life. We will have time to drum
together, to share, ask questions, and learn how to apply these spiritual skills in ordinary life. .Please
dress comfortably and bring a journal, a blanket, bandana to cover your eyes for the journey meditation, and a sack lunch.
Bring a flat drum or a rattle if you have
one. . About the instructor: Danuta Jirik, Ph.D. has worked as a spiritual healer since 1994. She experienced the
shamanic awakening around the year 2000. Since then, she has studied with Michael Harner and Alicia Gates (Advanced
Shamanism and Shamanic Healing 2-week intensive with Foundation for Shamanic Studies), with Myron Eshowsky (Foundation for
Shamanic Studies and Pathways for Peace) and Larry Kessler (Hawaiian Shamanism), and Tom Cowan (Celtic Shamanism). She has
a shamanic and energy healing practice in Oak Park. She has facilitated many shamanic journeys and healings for her clients,
and has taught shamanic journeying and healing in a number of workshops in the Chicago and New York areas.
In 2007, Danuta
taught several classes on shamanic journeying at Columbia College, Chicago. Here's what
the students had to say about their experience:
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"A few things really stood out from the
shamanic journeys. One was that it is very peaceful to clear your mind of everyday stresses and everything you encountered
in the day. Finding your power animal and experiencing a journey that takes you out of this world is a great feeling." "Wow...
that was the most emotional time I've ever had in class. It was an experience unlike anything else before. In those several
hours I felt connected and so close to everyone else it was unbelievable. The emotion, the positive energy, all of that was
so strong, there was just a certain aura in the air that made me feel like everything would be all right..." "I was a flying horse with wings!!! I could not name another class ever in the past (and
it's not likely for the future either) where I got a chance to fly a horse! The shamanic journey was an amazing experience
from the very first moment till the very end." "I really liked the drumming. It's wonderful to get so engaged and lost,
so effortlessly. It was like I automatically went to a heartspace." "The class was definitely one of the most spiritual and captivating
experiences in my life. I found myself thinking and dreaming about my power animal well after the class session was over....(..)
During the ritual, when the climax of all of our drums beating as one, I felt very warm inside. I was totally aware of my
own energy (...). I have always been aware of the power within to free yourself and transcend into something that you are
totally happy with. Life is one big pursuit of happiness. However, I never really understood the spiritual aspect and how
significant it is. This class has shown me the way." "The experience with Danuta and our Shamanic Journey was really incredible.
I haven't been able to connect with my inner self on such a level before with guided meditation. I'm not sure if it was the
drumming or the collective consciousness of the classroom, but it was like dreaming while being awake (or perhaps I was just
"awakening). Either way I really enjoyed the experience and I think I got a lot from it." "The most valuable
lessons I have obtained from the shamanic journeys include the power of togetherness and accepting help. Through our power
animals we discover aspects of ourselves we may need to work on. Along with our animal we can resolve our problems as well
as our weaknesses. We can turn to our power animal for help and guidance too. Having our class come together as one was
very powerful and created an atmosphere in the room that was full of a very powerful energy." "When Danuta called
us to come back to this reality, my bird just soared down towards the earth and dropped me off. I could hear the drumming
coming back from a far away distance, getting closer and closer. My power animal nodded his head to say goodby and he flew
away, I knew I would see him again so it was not a sad goodbye. When I came to, I was awake and vibrant. I felt completely
refreshed."
"I really appreciated the journey process(...) I felt it was somehting I would like to contuinue working on. I feel that
the power animal is a guide and he/she will help you throughout your life if you are lacking focus. Having a power animal
reminds me of the core self. I feel like the power animal is the deepest part of our core self. The power animal is also a
witness. It knows what goes on even if we do not recognize that it is present. It is our all-knowing being. I feel that
the power animal is what I must strive to acknowledge. I want to know my power animal more so therefore I can know myself
more."
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